I spoke at some length this last Sunday about the impact that we can have on each others lives. One of the greatest gifts you can give someone, and one of the most fulfilling things you can do for yourself, is to give of yourself to others. Often we think, I would love to, but I just don't have the time. Often though it's not a matter of investment or not having the available resources. Many times, our words can suffice.
Solomon related in Proverbs 25:11, "A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver."
We know how words can destroy. An efficiency expert concluded his presentation on efficiency in the work place with a note of caution: "Don't try these techniques at home."
"Why not?" one of his colleagues asked.
He responded, "I watched my wife's routine at breakfast for years. She made lots of trips to the refrigerator, stove, table, and cabinets, often carrying just a single item at a time. 'Honey," I suggested, 'Why don't you try carrying several things at once and save time and steps?'"
The person in the audience asked, "Did it save time?"
The expert replied, "Actually, yes, It used to take her 20 minutes to get breakfast ready. Now I do it in seven."
Just as words can hinder, they can heal and help.
Ephesians 4:49, "Let no unwholesome word proceed from you mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment, that it may give grace to those who hear."
Dr. Larry Crabb, Christian counselor and very gifted preacher, recalls an incident in the church he attended as a young man. It was customary in this church that young men were encouraged to participate in the communion services by serving and even offering prayers. Feeling the pressure of expectation, Larry, who in addition to being shy and nervous, had a problem with stuttering. In a terribly confused prayer, he recalls, "thanking the Father for hanging on the cross and praising Christ for triumphantly bringing the Spirit from the grave."
When he was finished, he vowed to himself that he would never again speak or pray out loud in front of a group. At the end of the service, not wanting to meet any of the church leaders who might feel constrained to correct his errant theology, he made a hasty retreat for the door. Before he could get out, an older man named Jim Dunbar caught up to him.
"Larry," he said, "there is one thing I must tell you, and one thing I want you to know. Whatever you do for the Lord, I'm behind you one thousand percent."
Larry reflects in his book, "Even as I write these words, my eyes fill with tears. I have yet to tell that story to an audience without at least mildly choking. Those words were life to me. They had power. They reached deep into my soul."
I know what he means. I'm sure we've all had words fitly spoken to us, and we know the power that they hold. Words of edification that give grace to those to hear.
Norv
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